Dear Troy...
Me again. I wanted to write sooner. Sorry I didn't.
I see you have at least five bb scenes out there, including ones with Armond Rizzo and Cory Koons, so I wonder why you say you've lost work for refusing to do bb, which implies that you've never done it. At least there is Truvada now, although it's apparently astronomically expensive, but with condoms added, two (or more!) serodiscordant partners could have amazing fucks, or so I think. Do you?
Have you ever been in love? What sort of relationship would you ever see yourself in? I know you oppose everything about gay marriage, including any legal codification approving it (which was one of the "questionable" political stances I was talking about before), but is there any point at which you'd think of having a few men (or one) you were really emotionally and mentally connected with while pursuing your porn and other careers as well as your other sexual adventures? Would you at least go for a "fellow traveler"? I could talk about how disappointed I am in Obama and Israel, too, but probably from a much more leftist perspective. (Have you read Max Blumenthal's book Goliath?) And you could tell me much more about where you've been and where you hope to go as you continue to satisfy your lust and wanderlust.
I never meant to give the impression that I disapprove of drinking at all or YOUR smoking habits. When it comes to smoking, that's what I meant when I said that finding out a guy is a smoker inveterately turns me off, even when I've already developed some sort of interest in him, even if he's a favorite actor or porn star---but then you came along. Hell, cigars and pipe tobacco are far better than cigarettes and almost always better than pot and incense!
I just read your post about the Kit Kat. You failed to mention how you were outfitted---not that it's any of my business---but what kinds of erotic outfits do you like to see potential partners or longer-term fuck buddies in? What other things do you find especially sexy? (I'm glad to see you like hair and don't seem to mind beards....!) And how does the Kit Kat compare with other sex clubs?
Are you working on another book or do you have plans for another? What are some of your favorite books and why? And what about authors?
I guess that's it for now. Be well
Read more: http://troymoreno.blogspot.com/2015/03/dear-troy-platos-phaedrus.html#ixzz3Wd5eaTHr
Dear Anonymous:
No, no, no I said I lost work for refusing to perform
Same-sex marriage is still not a thing I flippantly regard as 'Sure, why not?' In the face of cruel divorce biases, I think it is quite reasonable for a man to decide to live or partner with another man than buy into the drama of legally marrying a woman. Hell, polygamy makes more sense than our current provision of 'one man-one woman'. Legally recognizing unrelated persons as estate benefactors or 'next of kin' in cases of emergencies and hospital visits is an advance that can be made and ought to have been, it seems to me, without sanctioning same-sex marriages.
No, I've not read Blumenthal's "Goliath" but, yes, I am busy working on another book as well as a play! Have you read my previous works? Currently I'm reading "The Bully Pulpit" (Doris Kearns Goodwin). As for my personal life I'll keep that personal except to say that I care nothing for games or costumes in the bedroom; plainly, I like my lovers to be barefoot butt ass naked and clean smelling. Aside from, maybe, a tan line I don't care to see them wearing anything but a grin -- and me.
I don't ask for much.
flaccid dick on a sleeping rump
All right, all right, I thought it was clearly meant that I was just using "bb" as shorthand for "bareback." I certainly don't go around saying "bb" instead of "bareback," and I guess I'd usually spell it out in writing, too. Anyway, I liked the image of the child.
ReplyDeleteI'm still surprised, however, that you said first that you'd lost work because you wouldn't perform "condom-free" as if there were some distinction between that and "bareback," "raw," etc.
I guess I'd advocate that polyamory makes more sense than polygamy or anything else. That's a long conversation, though. I think I'd probably fit best in a triad relationship, but I haven't had the chance to try it out.
In the past you were virulently opposed to gay marriage and contemptuous of anyone who advocated it, tacitly or not. Your stance didn't seem predicated on reservations about divorce or proposals for alternative legal frameworks giving same-sex couples the right to hospital visits and such. What changed?
I have read A Traveler Other and An American Nigger in San Juan. I haven't read your plays because when I initially searched for them I couldn't find them. I haven't tried in a while. Could you point me in the right direction? I know a community theater that might be willing to produce one or more, but obviously I'd have to read them before making recommendations. Which playwrights do you admire? I'm dissatisfied with most contemporary theater; I wish Pinter were still alive and writing. Have you seen the collaborations he did with Joseph Losey? I think Accident is the best.
I can see you being interested in Teddy Roosevelt. You share the same wanderlust he had and the desire to put pen to paper (sort of) about it. Unfortunately you don't have the same freedom of passage he did, in wealth, skin color, connections, or outsized reputation.
I'm always working on several books at once. Now it's histories of Reconstruction and Jim Crow.
I hope what I'm writing is giving you more than an idea of my personality, interests, etc. I have an undergrad degree from Harvard with a few grad courses, but no real progress toward a grad degree for various reasons, including fear of massive debt. I also think it's a lot more important to have a native intelligence than a college degree. An American, I've traveled overseas and lived for several years abroad in a non-English-speaking country. I read a lot, mostly non-fiction. I write some, too.
I imagine you want to know something about me physically. I'm in my 40s, pretty short, and fairly hairy. I'm white, with brown hair and hazel eyes. I've put on some extra pounds in the past few years, but living in a really cold climate is a major part of the problem. I'm in a new exercise regimen that's getting rid of the belly, though. Once I get the body I want or come close to it (and probably need if I want you to fuck me---and maybe more?), I hope we could be workout partners. :)
Thanks for the interest....
Polyamory sounds about right. I'm already there! Can't say that I've ever been in a triad relationship but I have mixed it up with 3somes. Does that count?
DeleteCall it whatever you like -- bareback, bare sex, raw, condom-free, condomless, au natural, unsafe sex, breeding, seeding -- but the take-away remains: an uncovered dick by any other name is the typecast I'm expected to oblige. Personally I think many guys get off on some Napoleonic rebellious kick by using terms like bareback and RAW (the font typically savage-looking and blood drenched)...it conveys an I-don't-give-a-fuck machismo; I'm a baaaaad boy. I wasn't intending to split hairs by using 'condom-free'; if I'm looking at (gay)porn and there's no condom in the scene it means the scene is free of condoms which means, to my immediate thinking, 'condom-free' is the immediate logical adjective to describe it. In speech I'm much more likely to say "they're fucking without condoms" than "they're bareback." But like I said, an uncovered dick by any other name....